Treat him with love! 10 things you should never do to your penis

If there are times when you have doubts about how to grab your penis or how to perform oral sex, we will give you 10 tips so that you and he can get the most out of bed. Take note!

In enfemenino we have talked a lot about sexuality. And is that knowing how to enjoy sex will make you have much more intense and intimate relationships with your partner, and above all, it will help you to be happier. Today, precisely, we want to talk to you about what is sometimes a great unknown to many of us: the penis. We know that there are bigger and smaller ones or that they can have different shapes, but do you know how to handle a penis? Because you do not want to hurt him ...

After a perfect date, you may want to take action with your boy, but if you do not consider yourself an expert on the subject, you will be thrown back by the idea of ​​seeing him naked and not knowing how to react. Nothing happens if you do not want to, but if it really is a lack of confidence, we're going to tell you 10 things you should never do to a penis to have the perfect sexual encounter: record it in your mind!

1. Do not be afraid

This is the best advice we can give you. Some women are afraid of grabbing the penis because they think they can hurt or even because of shame and prefer to simply touch it on top . Well, although you have to be careful, you can play it and play with it passionately! Confidence in yourself is very important to maintain satisfactory sexual relationships. So he takes his penis with confidence and without fear of looking too daring. If you have already reached the point of being naked, it will be because both of you are willing to touch and hold each other. Get out of the way!

2. Do not use only the index finger and thumb

As we said, shame does not get along very well with sexual satisfaction. Once you hold the erect penis or not your boy, do not do it alone with the index finger and thumb: use the whole hand! It is true that depending on the size of the penis it will be easier or less to grab it with the whole hand, but if your measurements are normal, he will like it much more than you use the whole hand, since the pleasure is much greater when pressing in more areas of your penis. Here we leave you a few extra tips on how to masturbate a man .

3. No to the teeth, yes to the tongue

This point is quite obvious, is not it? Do you know the gesture you make when you spread your lipstick, when you rub your lips and hide your teeth? Well, if you are going to practice fellatio , place your lips more or less like this but with your mouth open, with your lips hiding your teeth. Your denture does not have to touch the penis at any time, it is a very sensitive area and you can hurt it. Starting from this gives free rein to your imagination and uses different techniques for you to enjoy to the fullest.

4. Do not be scared with its shape

When you see your partner's penis for the first time, it will not always be as you imagine it. In fact, it is quite strange that it is as you imagine. It can be circumcised or not, be wider or narrower, measure more or less centimeters and can have some of these forms:

All this means that there are no two penises alike and, therefore, do not think that everyone will have the classic shape that we have in mind or the shape and length of your ex's penis. But if your member is smaller than you expected, very curved or has a very large glans, for example, you should not worry, it's normal! With each shape or type of penis there are optimal positions that will make you enjoy the same, you just have to know them.

5. Do not rub against him

If you are lying on him astride kissing him and he is not penetrating you at that moment, pay attention to where his penis is. Rubbing your body against it if it is not well lubricated can hurt it and even some wound. At this point we must also bear in mind that there are penises that during the erection lubricate more naturally, and therefore are more flexible and there are others that do not lubricate and, when kept dry, are more given to pulls. For a penis to lubricate naturally and expel precum, good preliminaries can be very helpful. If not, an artificial lubricant is also a great option.

6. Do not masturbate inside the pants

Do not do it because the friction of the fabric of the pants with the glans can hurt you. If you put your hand through your pants in a fit of passion, remove your penis carefully from underwear and leave it in the air. Much more comfortable!

7. Do not stretch or squeeze too much

When you go to masturbate, you have to do it naturally. Go down to the end but without stretching too much, you can give a pull on the frenulum . On the other hand, most men like to have their erect penis squeezed when masturbating, since friction in this case is synonymous with pleasure, but neither do you crush it too hard. Measure the intensity! And if you have doubts, here it is best that you tell him to masturbate himself in front of you, so you can see how he does it and you can learn the method he likes the most.

8. Do not pour body oils crazy

If you have some oil that you want to massage, be very careful if you are going to use it on the penis: it could irritate or sting. Keep in mind that the penis is a very sensitive area, and if you want to do some erotic massage, the best is an appropriate lubricant for it, which you can buy in a sex shop, in a pharmacy or in a supermarket.

9. Do not rub the glans

Another important point: do not rub the glans with your finger or hand if it is not perfectly lubricated. Even when lubricated by saliva, precum, or lubricant, some men find it unbearable to be rubbed in that area, where the line between pleasure and tickling is very thin. The best thing you can do is try lightly and see their reaction. And be careful, at this point with the manicure, the long nails are not good friends of the glans.

10. Do not introduce it in any way

At the time of penetration, you must take into account that not only can you hurt yourself if you introduce the penis abruptly into the vagina: it can also hurt him! And this happens especially in anal sex . So be careful if you decide to take the reins and introduce the penis quickly and passionately. Do it slowly, at least the first few times, and then accelerate the rhythm and intensity to your liking. In the case of anal sex, lubricants and preliminaries such as annilingus will help you dilate the area since the sexual relationship is totally pleasurable for both of you.

Postures for all tastes (and types of penises)

The theory is very easy, but now you have to move on to practice! With these tips to know what not to do with a penis, and especially with the rapport, the love and the complicity of your boy, surely you get great things together in bed. Here we leave you a few postures of the Kamasutra so you can motivate yourself even more ... Let the passion explode!

And if passion explodes elsewhere than at home, here are some ideas to practice sex in the car ... Enjoy!