Male ejaculation: everything you need to know

Male ejaculation is the climax of sexual satisfaction. It is not an orgasm, it is above all a mechanical and biological reflex. On the other hand, not all men always ejaculate. Why and how do men ejaculate? With what problems can they be found? Here is a short summary to know how your partner's sexuality works.



Taboos: let's talk about male ejaculation
Before going into the matter of male ejaculation (and eye, also feminine, which is not only men), we will give a small definition of this word that we find difficult to say many times. Basically, male ejaculation involves the expulsion of sperm and is usually accompanied by orgasm . It is also the result of repetitive stimulation of the penis while maintaining a sexual relationship or masturbation. This is something to be familiar with, because, as you know, it happens to almost all men, whatever your tastes.

What is ejaculation?

The expulsion of semen takes place in two stages:

• First, the vas deferens (born from the testicles) expel sperm into the prostate after sexual arousal. Next, the seminal fluid mixed with the sperm is expelled through the prostate and seminal vesicles towards the base of the urethra. He feels a tension that indicates that he is about to reach orgasm, the point of no return.
Finally, the sperm is expelled. The ejaculation is accompanied by very powerful rhythmic contractions from the muscles of the base of the penis and the lower abdomen. He feels between 4-8 muscular contractions and at the same time reaches orgasm.
• Sperm is usually projected with a relatively large force. Most women feel that strength in the vagina.
• More mechanical information: the neck of the bladder closes automatically to prevent the urine from mixing with the sperm.

Is it possible to ejaculate twice in a row?

You have to wait an average of 30 to 45 minutes to ejaculate again and sometimes with pain. After ejaculation, the penis progressively loses its erection. Therefore, it is strange that you can ejaculate twice in a row. However, there are several parameters that come into play: the level of excitement, concentration and physical ability not to fall asleep. Make sure, but, that it is not you, young lady, who incites you to fall asleep and not your pituitary gland. After having an orgasm, this brain gland secretes endorphins that encourage him to fall asleep.

Different ways to reach ejaculation

If you are reading this article because you want to know something better about your boy, you should know that many women (and men) are excited to see their partner ejaculate or play with their cum after orgasm. And it is that, if it is done obviously with someone of total and absolute confidence, it can be a very sexy element in your sexual relations.

Before that, you can warm the environment by masturbating , practicing fellatio , with some romantic postures , trying anal sex , with some erotic toys or simply practicing one of the 100 postures of the kamasutra that we recommend below. Ejaculation and orgasm will be insured

It is also important that you know your boy's penis well. Although for practical purposes, you can ejaculate have the type of penis you have, it is not the same to make love with a guy with a very large penis , who will do well postures, than with a boy with the smallest penis , that other different postures will be better. As a curiosity, the average size of the penis can vary depending on the country of origin , but do not torment him with it , because you can enjoy with any boy equally.

Pathologies of ejaculation

• Premature or premature ejaculation . It is a frequent and non-serious problem that affects one in three men. He (very often quite young) ejaculates at the beginning of the penetration and sometimes before it occurs. However, it is due to a problem of control: ejaculation becomes an uncontrollable reflex that man can not delay to prolong pleasure.
• Anejaculation . At the time of ejaculation, sperm is not expelled. It is usually a consequence of the treatments used to fight against some types of cancer.
• Retrograde or dry ejaculation . The sperm is expelled towards the bladder instead of towards the outside. This anomaly usually requires surgery because it is usually the cause of sterility.
• Bloody ejaculation . The sperm contains traces of blood. It is usually a benign condition but it can also result in the presence of a prostate tumor or infection.
• Painful ejaculation . The man feels a pain in the urethra, pelvis or anus that can lead to an infection of the prostate.

Can you control ejaculation?

Usually controlling ejaculation is easier with age. There are ways to learn to master pleasure for both the victims of premature ejaculation and for the rest:

• Effect "mother-in-law" or "cold water": think of something totally antierotic to delay the orgasmic process ... it is not always easy and sometimes it has consequences for the couple. It is only recommended in case of urgency.
• Another option is to masturbate before the relationship to reduce the excitement of the fateful moment.
• Preservatives retardantes, of all known, not only to remedy premature ejaculations.
• "Start and stop" method: this American technique requires the couple to exert some pressure on the penile brake when the man is about to reach the point of no return.

Erection and ejaculation: different processes

The process of ejaculation is separated from that of erection as the erection is controlled by the pituitary gland. That's why you can ejaculate without an erection and without having orgasms, as happens in nocturnal ejaculations (called "wet dreams"). It is true, at night they can ejaculate without dreaming of something erotic. This type of ejaculation is more common among young people and could be related to the rate of testosterone, however, the phenomenon that triggers it is not yet clear. However, the more the man abstains, the more wet dreams he will have.

Female ejaculation: the great unknown?

In recent years, and thanks to the liberation of women in the sexual field, they talk about and more and more about female ejaculation or squirt. And in the case of women there are different types of ejaculation that can provide infinite pleasure. If you want to discover more about this topic, do not miss our article about female ejaculation . With our advice and some of the sex toys that we propose below, you will surely discover a pleasure without limits.